Commonly Asked Questions
Psychotherapy
What is Psychotherapy?
Psychotherapy is a collaborative, confidential process that helps you better understand your thoughts, emotions, and life experiences, and how these influence the way you feel and behave. It provides a safe, supportive space to explore difficulties, evelop insight, and work towards meaningful change.
Rather than offering quick fixes, psychotherapy focuses on helping you make sense of what has brought you to the place you are in, what is happening for you and strengthening your ability to cope with life’s challenges. People seek therapy for many reasons, including anxiety, low mood, stress, trauma, relationship difficulties, or feeling stuck or overwhelmed. You do not need to be in crisis to benefit from psychotherapy, no matter your current position, it is a valuable space for personal growth and self‑understanding.
As a psychiatric nurse and therapist, I bring both clinical experience and a compassionate, person‑centred approach to ensure therapy is practical, ethical, and tailored to you as an individual.
What is CBT, specifically?
Although I use an integrative approach to therapy meaning I draw on all of my professional knowledge, High-Intensity CBT is the main modality of psychotherapy that I am trained in.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is an evidence‑based form of psychotherapy that focuses on the connection between our thoughts, feelings, physical sensations, and behaviours. CBT is based on the idea that it is not just situations themselves that affect how we feel, but the way we interpret and respond to them.
In CBT, we work together to identify unhelpful thinking patterns and behaviours that may be keeping difficulties going. You will then learn practical strategies to test these patterns, develop more balanced perspectives, and make changes that support your wellbeing.
CBT is structured, focused, and goal‑oriented. It is commonly used to support people experiencing anxiety, depression, panic, phobias, low self‑esteem, trauma responses, obsessive‑compulsive difficulties, and stress‑related issues.
Sessions are collaborative and empowering, with an emphasis on helping you build skills you can use independently in everyday life.
Who Do I Work With?
I work with individuals aged 16+ experiencing a range of psychological and emotional difficulties. My approach is individualised, meaning therapy is shaped around your unique experiences, values, and needs, rather than focusing solely on a working diagnosis.
I commonly support people with:
- Anxiety disorders, including generalised anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks, and health anxiety
- Low mood and depression
- Stress, burnout, and overwhelm
- Trauma and the impact of adverse or distressing life experiences
- Low self‑esteem, shame, and self‑criticism
- Obsessive–compulsive difficulties (OCD)
- Phobias and specific fears including emetephobia
- Emotional regulation difficulties
- Relationship difficulties and attachment‑related concerns
- Life transitions, loss, and adjustment to change
- Emotional overwhelm
- ADHD, Autism & Masking
What will sessions look like?
Therapy sessions are person‑centred, collaborative, and tailored to you as an individual. Sessions usually last around 50 minutes and take place weekly, though this can be reviewed together.
All clients begin therapy with an initial assessment, which lasts up to 1.5 hours. This session provides dedicated time to explore what has brought you to therapy, your current difficulties, and relevant aspects of your personal history. We will look at your experiences in context, including past life events, relationships, and coping strategies, to gain a fuller understanding of you and your needs. The assessment also allows space for questions, discussion of how therapy may help, and for us to decide together whether CBT and my approach feel like the right fit for you at this time.
Following the assessment, ongoing sessions focus on building a shared understanding of your difficulties. My work is formulation driven, meaning we collaboratively develop a personalised formulation that makes sense of how your experiences, thoughts, emotions, behaviours, and past experiences connect. This helps guide therapy in a way that is meaningful and grounded in your lived experience, rather than using a one‑size‑fits‑all approach.
Sessions may involve:
- Exploring your personal history and significant life experiences
- Identifying patterns in thoughts, emotions, behaviours, and relationships
- Understanding symptoms within the wider context of your life
- Developing new ways of coping that feel realistic and compassionate
While CBT strategies may be used, they are always guided by your individual formulation and adapted to suit you. Therapy moves at your pace, with regular opportunities to reflect, review progress, and adjust the focus as needed.
Above all, sessions aim to provide a safe, non‑judgemental space where you feel listened to, understood, and supported in making sense of your experiences and working towards change.
Coaching
What Is Coaching?
Coaching is a forward‑focused, collaborative process that supports you to clarify goals, build confidence, and make purposeful changes in your life. Unlike therapy, which often involves exploring emotional difficulties and past experiences in depth, coaching is primarily focused on the present and future - where you are now and where you would like to be.
As a mental health and life coach, I work with you to identify your strengths, values, and aspirations, and to understand what may be getting in the way of progress. Coaching provides a structured, reflective space to explore options, develop insight, and take practical steps towards meaningful change.
How Is Coaching Different From Therapy?
While there can be some overlap in skills and approaches, coaching and therapy have different aims:
- Therapy tends to focus on mental health difficulties, emotional distress, and patterns shaped by past experiences. It is often appropriate when people are struggling with symptoms such as anxiety, low mood, trauma responses, or complex emotional difficulties.
- Coaching is not treatment for mental health conditions. Instead, it is focused on growth, decision‑making, motivation, and personal or professional development.
Coaching is typically more goal‑focused and action‑oriented, with less emphasis on symptom reduction or clinical diagnosis. As both a therapist and coach, I am able to work thoughtfully and ethically, and to help you decide which approach is most appropriate for your needs. In some cases, coaching and therapeutic skills may be integrated carefully, while remaining clear about boundaries and purpose.
What Can Coaching Help With?
Coaching can be helpful if you are feeling generally well but want support with change, direction, or development. This may include:
- Life transitions or decision‑making
- Career direction, work‑related stress, or professional growth
- Building confidence, self‑belief, and motivation
- Setting boundaries and improving work-life balance
- Clarifying goals and values
- Personal development and self‑reflection
- Moving forward after a difficult period in your life
Coaching provides a supportive but focused space to reflect, plan, and take action. Sessions are collaborative and empowering, helping you build clarity and confidence while taking responsibility for your progress.
If you’re unsure whether coaching or therapy would be the right fit, this can be discussed during an initial conversation to ensure you receive the most appropriate support.
General
Can NFMC prescribe medication?
I am unable to provide any medical advice or prescriptions, however, I do work closely with consultants in Adult Psychiatry who I can signpost you to should this be something you wish to explore.
Can NFMC provide formal diagnosis of a mental health condition?
I do not provide formal psychiatric diagnoses. Although we may discuss a working diagnosis, my work focuses on understanding you - your experiences, patterns, and world, rather than fitting difficulties into diagnostic labels. If a formal diagnosis is needed for practical reasons (such as medical, workplace or educational support), I can help you decide on appropriate next steps, including signposting or referral to suitably qualified professionals who can offer a diagnosis. Many people find that meaningful therapy and change is possible without a formal diagnosis, and we can talk together about what would feel most helpful for you.
Can NFMC provide reports for legal proceedings?
No. The New Forest Mind Clinic does not provide reports for legal proceedings, court cases, or matters requiring a medico‑legal expert opinion. My work is focused on therapeutic support rather than assessment for legal purposes. If you need a formal report for legal, court, or evidential use, I can help you think about what kind of report may be required and signpost you to an appropriately qualified psychologist, psychiatrist, or independent expert who specialises in this area.
How many sessions will I need?
There's no one‑size‑fits‑all answer. The number of sessions you might need depends on what you’re bringing, what you want from therapy, and how we choose to work together. Some people come for a short period to focus on a specific issue, while others value longer‑term therapy to explore deeper or more longstanding patterns. We will regularly review how things are feeling for you, and you remain in control of the pace and length of the work. Therapy with me is not about committing to a set number of sessions, but about finding what feels right and helpful for you.
Does NFMC offer evening & weekend appointments?
Yes. I offer a limited number of evening and weekend appointments to help accommodate work, family and other commitments. Availability can vary, so please get in touch to discuss current options and we can look at what might work best for you.
Do NFMC concessionary rates?
I offer a limited number of concessionary rates in certain circumstances. These are subject to availability and are offered with care to ensure the work remains sustainable. If cost is a concern, you’re very welcome to get in touch and we can have an open conversation about your situation and whether a concession might be possible.
Do NFMC accept insurance?
No. The New Forest Mind Clinic does not accept health insurance, and sessions are offered on a self‑funded basis only. This allows the work to remain flexible, confidential, and tailored to you, without the constraints often attached to insurance‑led therapy.
Do NFMC offer Crisis Intervention?
No. The New Forest Mind Clinic does not offer crisis intervention or emergency mental health support. My work is suited to therapeutic support when you are able to engage safely in ongoing sessions.
If you are feeling at immediate risk, overwhelmed, or unsafe, it’s important to seek urgent support. In the UK, you can contact your GP, visit A&E, call NHS 111 for urgent mental health help, or contact Samaritans on 116 123 for confidential support at any time. If you are in immediate danger, please call 999.
If you’re unsure whether therapy with NFMC is the right fit at this time, I’m happy to talk things through and help you think about the most appropriate support for your current needs.
What if I am unhappy with the service?
I take feedback and concerns very seriously. If at any point you feel unhappy with the service, I would encourage you to raise this directly with me so we can talk it through together. Many concerns can be resolved through open and honest conversation, and I welcome the opportunity to understand your experience.
If you feel unable to discuss the issue directly, or your concerns remain unresolved, you have the right to follow a formal complaints process. I am fully registered with my professional governing body, and details of how to make a complaint to them can be provided on request or found on their website.
Your voice matters, and you deserve to feel safe, respected
The New Forest Mind Clinic
Founded in 2026 by Sophia Graeble, registered Mental Health Nurse and High-Intensity Psychological Therapist
The New Forest Mind Clinic Limited
Registered Office:
71-75 Shelton Street
Covent Garden
London
WC2H 9JQ
Registered in England and Wales.
Company No: 17154668